Somethings will never be yours, it doesn’t mean they are bad things but they just dont fit in your life and that does not make you a failure or incapable, THEY ARE JUST NOT FOR YOU and you cant force them to stay, work out for you or be good to you.

I often tell people not to give up, to wait, to be patient but somethings you just need to walk away from. An addiction, a job, a family member, If you have been working on that relationship and its just not standing maybe you should let it collapse even though its scary starting over but LET IT GO. If you have contributed so much into a job that keeps on killing you, everyday is a different fight, a battle and you dont win, work on getting out of there, start a business, apply to a different place, just WORK ON GETTING OUT OF THERE.

Lets stop the lies, SOMETHINGS ARE JUST NOT WORTH THE FIGHT, yes you put on a fight a few times and the results stay the same, you deserve peace too, Just let go.

Its simple writing the words “Let go” but how do you let go of your first love, a job that feeds your family, a dream, a toxic family…well, its never easy and sometimes you wonder if you are making the right decision, anxiety kicks in, fear and all the other feelings that come with letting go because as people we have been taught that letting go is a sign of failure but what is your truth? somewhere deep inside your soul, this conscious,this inner being is telling you that this relationship is the death of you no matter how much you care, that you really need to leave the nest, you have been comfortable at home for a long time, that you need to have that talk with your family and disclose your truth, that you are living a lie but we are so stuck in pretending everyday that we are okay, forcing ourselves to believe it, everyday drinking to accept it, forcing yourself to live it while the real you is in need of freedom, a real thing, stability, a family that cares, a career that unleashes your potential, you really want to leave that job to pursue that dream no matter the odds, TRY YOURSELF FOR ONCE, explore yourself for once, try your magic, try your love, try your abilities, for once use the same motivation you have been giving others and give yourself, GO FOR YOU NOW